Was on leave yesterday. Slacking at home.
Oh man when will my flu fully recover?
Really feel so sick of my flu.. *ah Chooooo~*
Just saw valerie's blog about this question:
Will you still continue to love someone when he/she no longer loves you or even have another new partner?
Its always very hard to put the feelings down isnt it?
It isnt stupidity its just love.
If love can simply be put down it isnt love anymore.
Thus if it can be put down so easily does it mean that during the r/s the person has nvr really loved the partner deeply.
To me Yes indeed.
And of course there is definitely healing period. And indeed it take time.
Just like pple always say time can cure the wound but the wound can never be fully cured because it will leave a scar.
The scar will be the memories the person left behind.
Just like Ivan told me: Even thou the r/s has ended, but 10 yrs down the road the memories will still be there.
"Even the winds of separation has blew us apart, but the trails of memories u left, still lies deeply within my heart."
Yes, ultimately its the person who make the choice.
Be it Good or bad it will be his/her choice.
Most importantly do not regret on the decision made.
I totally agree with HW too:
Two parties must at least try to work the things out first.
if you never try, you never know whether it can be workable.
At least there is no regrets as already tried the best.
One shldnt have any regrets in life.
